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If you're looking for some counsel on how to make your bedroom activities go with a bang, follow our easy tips for sexual success! First Sex Mistake Pushing your partner to do anything she isn't comfortable with. So, if you've been thinking about trying the outrageous sex positions adopted by some porn stars, forget it! Begin from a more realistic place: think what she wants. Being sexually comfortable means a couple of for a woman: first of all, she has to be physically comfortable. That might mean she isn't going to feel too cheerful if you ask her to stretch her legs behind her head while you have sex. It might also mean that you have to forego any position that gives you the deepest penetration, because your penis might bang her cervix and give her some acute discomfort. Second, she has to feel emotionally comfortable. So if you have sex with her like one of those adult movie stars might, she isn't going to be too happy either, and you're not likely to be invited back to have sex again any time soon. This includes: wanting to ejaculate over any part of her body without her whole-hearted agreement, using dirty talk that is disrespectful to her, wanting to spank her buttocks if she isn't into that sort of sex play, and generally treating her like a sex object rather than your cherished lover. Second Sex Mistake Being too much of a gentleman. There's an old pithy maxim: "A gentleman takes his weight on his arms." If you think this and other such examples of good manners are the best way to perform during sex in the missionary, did you ever try asking your partner what she wishes? A lot of women want to feel the weight of their man on top of them during lovemaking. They explain this by saying it makes them feel protected, or they say they just like to feel the energy and strength of their man in this position. Yes, if you're a lot heavier than she is, you might squash her, so exercise some judgement, but usually, in the man on top position, let her feel your heaviness! And in all sex positions, remember to ask her what she likes! Third Sex Mistake If she's in the woman on top position, don't just lie still like a log when she's making love to you - match her thrusts, have fun, be adventurous and enjoy your lovemaking. If she's riding you, remember that you can still thrust during sex in this position. You can thrust your hips to match her movements, you can hoist up your knees to change the angle at which your penis penetrates her vagina, and you can embrace her breasts and clitoris if she's looking towards you while you have sex. Consider that you don't want her to lay motionless under you during missionary position sex, so in this position, return the favour and thrust yourself! Fourth Sex Mistake Being too aggressive during sex. While some women like rough sex, remember that for a woman, sex tends to be something loving and she'd like you to approach it that way too! That means not thrusting hard and fast without having her implicit agreement, not being selfish (e.g. climaxing yourself but not bothering to give her one), and not whizzing her around forcibly during sex. If you want to show how how much of a man you are by being a bit firm, do it with firmness and kindness, rather than by flinging her around the bed like a rag doll. Needless to say, this advice applies in any and all sex positions! Fifth Sex Mistake Sticking to the same old sex positions every time you make love While you don't have to try all the adventurous you can find on the internet, a bit of a change certainly adds seasoning to your sex life. Even if you're extremely fond of the man on top position, for example, sex in the rear entry or side by side positions will let you see your lover very differently, you may well get much more aroused, and you will certainly get some new and different sexual sensations! See http://www.sex-and-relationships.com/ for more information on great sex positions!
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